A pastor’s wife of one of Ghana’s most influential Pentecostal churches has lamented about her marriage life on live TV.
She revealed that her relationship began like a dream but has now turned into frustration and unhappiness.
The woman revealed a shocking development that her husband likes having intimacy with her being dirty and bushy.
According to the woman, she feels emotionally trapped and physically worn out.
She asserted that she is caught between keeping up appearances as a pastor’s wife and silently suffering behind closed doors.
Speaking on the TV3 Confessions programme, the Pastor’s wife lamented, “I have a husband who is a pastor of one of the biggest Pentecostal churches. We dated for two years without sex. But in my head, I felt maybe he wasn’t manly enough, that’s why he made that decision.
One day, during one of his visits to my place, I decided to romance him just to see if he was really manly. Trust me, I liked what I saw. Every woman would have liked it. It was very huge and long. So I said to myself,
‘This man is for me.’ I was so proud of him—because if you are that long and still have self-control, then I must be the luckiest lady who’s going to enjoy everything.”
She continued, “So, three years into our dating, we got married. On our wedding night, we didn’t do anything because we were so tired. The next day, we promised ourselves it would happen.
After the Thanksgiving service, we returned to our hotel and I quickly wanted to take a shower because I was sweaty from all the dancing. But he told me not to bathe because he likes it ‘dirty’.
In my head, I thought, how can someone like it that way? I was sweaty. But after going back and forth, I gave in and let him do what he wanted. Honestly, ever since that moment, I haven’t been happy in my marriage.”
The pastor’s wife further added, “Would you believe me if I told you I haven’t shaved since we got married? Every morning, he tells me not to shave before he goes to work. And when he wants to have sex, he tells me not to take a bath that entire day.
So if he wants it today, it means I can’t bathe all day. It has been extremely frustrating. I don’t know if this is normal. I’ve been treating yeast infections repeatedly, and he doesn’t even care.
Whether I have an infection or not, he will still lick it clean before penetrating. Because of how bushy it is, it becomes painful when he tries to do what he wants to do”.
