Rev John Kofi Bosomtwe a man of God with the Assemblies of God, has boldly told his congregants not to marry if they know their manhood is not working.
According to him, some men might marry a lady who has a lot of experience when it comes to sexual intercourse and will not be satisfied by the husband.
Speaking to his congregants, Rev John Kofi Bosomtwe stated, “If you know your manhood is not working do not marry, It is not about your manhood erecting so you know how to have intercourse come and let us teach you. If you know you don’t know how to”.
“The problem is that maybe the lady you are going to marry has lived her life and knows a lot about sex, if she is a virgin, you might be safe, what I am saying is the truth so listen to me”, he added.
The man of God further added, “The lady might know what you are doing is not enough, but she is shy and scared just looking at you quietly. When you have proper sex with your husband he gives proper chop money, he also buys chocolate when returning home, can buy properties and place it in your name, and even buy a car for you”.
Meanwhile, Daniel McKorley a renowned Ghanaian businessman and Executive Chairman of the McDan Group commonly known as McDan has also warned Ghanaian youths that marriage without money can derail them.
According to McDan, one must not marry if they don’t have money.
McDan further revealed that he was afraid of marriage because of ‘chop money’.
Speaking at the 2025 edition of PCH Hangouts at the ICGC The New Wine Temple, East Legon McDan stated, “If you don’t have money, don’t marry. Marriage without money can derail you”.
“I couldn’t marry early because I was afraid of ‘chop money.’ I grew up in an environment where you could see a man physically abusing a woman because of money, and a woman verbally abusing a man because of money.
“So, the institution of marriage was scary for me,” he confessed.
Additionally, some Ghanaians have expressed their opinion on the man of God’s message for his congregation.
One X user stated, “I think it’s about time pastors and parents start teaching their kids this (SEX) because that’s the major reason most marriages break, we all know about the second coming of Jesus already!”.
“Like prostitutes go get Benz from men.. being a good woman is not about sekx…”, another stated.
Watch the video below:
Rev. John Kofi Bosomtwe with a message for his congregation. pic.twitter.com/KA8I4zi7V4
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